October is an anniversary of sorts for me. I got my layoff notice at the end of September three years ago and spent the month of October wrapping things up and offboarding. If you looked back at my LinkedIn posts from those days, you would never have known I was going through that. So many people post immediately and ask for help. And I so admire that. But I tend to process things internally before I process them externally. I was processing a complex mix of embarrassment, an